Thinking of only yourself..

People that only take care of themselves in situations regarding help, greed, family, and friends make them not close as a friend, or nice with their words. Many people including me, don't always put themselves first..whereas they put family or friends before anything else. It makes them a bigger person in situations that can be hard to get out of and makes them able to be dependent on and know they have confidence. People can take care of themselves by putting others first, you may not get much but you'll be less selfish in the end and makes you a better friend.